Friday, January 22, 2010

Finally, Now I know.......

I was so bothered these past few days and now finally the worries are totally gone. I discovered that one of my pupils has a serious family problem. Ever since June, I always thought of winning his heart but I failed since he is not willing and he won't open up to me. Frustrating to know but maybe and surely he is hurting inside. He always wanted to be seen in the class, he wanted to appear bad and infamous to his classmates and he never took his studies seriously. I tried hard to reach out for him, but he is so close and he is so hurt that he can't even love himself for the reason he felt that his life is meaningless. He acts as if he never cares for anything and anyone even to himself. In my opinion, maybe it is his way of expressing himself how hurt he is. I feel so sad hearing the reality of what his family is going through. Now, I understand why he acted that way. I pitied him and I assure him that everything will be fine. Ding-dong is not the only pupil who got this problem. In my second batch of pupils before almost all of them suffered from this kind of problem only that those pupils were mature enough to accept that their parents could no longer be together and that they have moved on and let go of it. Accepting such thing is a process. It is hard and hurting in fact some never did escape from it but destroyed their life and ruined it. Prayer, support and guidance should be given to him. I'm praying that his wounds will be healed and that he will accept everything. In my own little way I will help him and free him from his wounded heart. Have a happy weekend my friend.

8 comments:

medic / scribbler said...

hello, carms! how i wish all teachers could be like you.. - you really care for your pupils.

you are an asset to your school!

Take care and God bless..

odds and ends said...

Well Carms, I believe it is really hard for Ding-Dong. In broken families, it is really the children who suffers the consequences.

puzzle said...

Your pupil must be very lucky for having you Carms :)

Vernz said...

Got a number of students with this problem too carms ... but they have greater tolerance now since they are college students already ... to process jud is the best a teacher can do ..

God bless,

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Vernz said...

hi carms, I also have students of this sort but maybe because they are college students already they deal it more with tolerance ...

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News N Buzz said...

It's so wonderful to know that we still have caring and sincere teachers like you Carms. Keep it up! And I hope you'll be able to help and guide you pupil.

By the way, I added your link to my Links page. Could you please add me too? Tnx.

kakara said...

you must be a nice teacher
hope everything will be ok soon,
for him and for all..

paulo said...

I did have a happy weekend. How's your?

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